The years flew by, life In Galilee suited Joseph and Mary. Joseph set up a carpentry business and they welcomed more children into their family: James, Elizabeth, Joses, twin girls Joanna and Sapphira, Judas and Simon. Jesus proved to be a helpful big brother and Mary was grateful for His constant encouragement and help when He wasn’t studying or assisting Joseph. Elizabeth was just as sweet and kind as Mary’s cousin and become a second mother to the other children, even Jesus listened to her and James when given a stern look from his mother. Mary’s heart was full of love for her children and her life was busy but wonderful.
Each year Joseph and Mary had made the pilgrimage to Jerusalem to celebrate the Passover festival (Luke 2:41). Mary always loved the journey because it meant quality time with her family and friends. She always found that the eight-day festival was a time of refreshing and rest because there were many hands to help out with the children. As she prepared for the upcoming pilgrimage she smiled and rejoiced, this one felt extra special. Jesus in particular seemed to be cherishing this trip more than the others. Mary smiled as He raced in to wash up for dinner, He had been out helping Joseph deliver items and was covered in sawdust. ‘slow down’ she called out as He raced past and nearly toppled Simon. ‘sorry’ Jesus yelled back with a grin. Mary tried to look stern but her heart swelled with pride, Jesus was just always so excited about everything and He brought so much joy to her life. Joseph came in and Mary smiled as he was swamped by the children ‘all set?’, Joseph smiled ‘yes I’ve finished what I can and there is no rush for the rest of the items.’.
After a noisy dinner Mary and the children settled down to listen to Joseph retell the story of the first Passover. When he had finished Mary put the youngest children to bed, she came back into the kitchen to find Joseph and Jesus busily packing the last items as Elizabeth prepared the final food stores they would need. Mary looked around at all the items they had gathered, ‘you’d think after all these years we would be able to pack a bit lighter?’. Joseph laughed ‘yeah right’. When the final preparations had been made Mary collapsed into bed utterly exhausted, she wasn’t sure how she would fare on the long trek and prayed for a refreshing sleep.
Over the next few days the kilometres quickly clocked up and Mary discovered that the fresh air actually invigorated her, it probably had a lot to do with the wonderful conversations she was able to have. Each night she laid down feeling content and happy. There was something truly special about this trip, the closer they got the more convinced she became. On the outskirts of Jerusalem, the crowds increased and Mary kept a close eye on her children. Mary and Joseph would be staying with Rufus and Merry again and she was so excited about being able to catch up with her dear friends. Each year it was one of the highlights at the end of the long journey. The upstairs room was crowded with all of them squeezed in so Jesus and James insisted on sleeping in the hay with the animals. Mary laughed at Jesus’ request and took great delight in showing Him exactly where He had spent His first few nights. Mary stood there squeezing Jesus and re telling the tale of His birth, tears flowed freely as she recalled the shepherds and the young boy. Jesus was fascinated and listened to Mary retell the story as He stroked the sheep that had gathered around them. Making sure that the boys were comfortable Mary went in to help with dinner preparations.
The next few days passed in a euphoric blur, they days were busy and full. Mary was able to take the younger children home most afternoons so that they could all have a sleep and stay up late for the evening events. Jesus and His cousin John spent a lot of time together and Elizabeth and Mary were harassed regularly by their constant requests to go into the hillside. Most days the boys would escape before dawn to explore the woods nearby and Mary constantly prayed for their safety.
The days passed quickly, Joseph and Mary soon found themselves packing up to leave. As usual Jesus was off with John so Mary gathered her other children and began the long trek home. At camp the first night Mary made her way over the Elizabeth to check on Jesus, her stomach dropped when she saw that Jesus was not with them. John explained they he hadn’t seen Jesus all day. Mary raced back to Joseph with her heart hammering and her mouth uttering a prayer: ‘Oh God, I’m so sorry’. She rushed into Joseph’s arms crying and blubbering that Jesus was lost, ‘I’m sure He’s here, why don’t you check with your relatives that way and I’ll check over this way.’. Mary nodded numbly and stumbled in the direction Joseph had pointed her. By the time darkness fell over the camp Joseph and Mary realised that Jesus was most definitely NOT with them. Mary cried herself to sleep that night and they made plans to return and look for Him.
Rufus and Merry were surprised but delighted to see them return so soon but their celebration soon turned into concern when they heard the news that Jesus was missing. For 3 days Joseph and Mary exhausted themselves looking everywhere they could for Jesus and each night Mary fell into a fitful sleep. She awoke early each morning with the feelings of guilt and condemnation falling heavy upon her heart. Her mind was assaulted with constant questions: how could she have been so careless? Losing the Son of God, how could she ever be forgiven? What if something truly terrible had happened to Him? Mary fretted that her 12 year-old son was somewhere strange, alone and afraid. As the sun rose Mary drew upon God’s grace and mercy afresh and asked for help to find Jesus.
Joseph and Mary had checked everywhere they could think of when a cousin came running up to them ‘I’ve found Him’ he puffed and tugged them along to the temple. Mary wept with relief when she saw Jesus but was surprised to find Him surrounded by the religious leaders and her ears could hardly believe that Jesus was actually asking extremely in-depth questions. As Joseph and Mary made their way closer she could hear Jesus asking all sorts of questions and was amazed that the Rabbis were patiently answering. Mary could hear the murmuring from those close by ‘for a young man He seems so full of wisdom’, she looked around and could see that people were amazed by His knowledge. But then the relief in Mary’s heart quickly turned to anger, didn’t He understand that they had been frantic with worry! Why did He stay behind? As Mary got closer she called out: ‘Son, why have you done this to us? We’ve been frantic with worry and searching for you everywhere!’ Jesus looked at her and smiled ‘there was no need to search, you should have known I would be in my Father’s house.’ Mary looked at Joseph puzzled and troubled, what did He mean? Joseph shrugged and gave Jesus a hug and they made their way home. (Luke 2:43-50).
“As Jesus grew, so did his wisdom and maturity. The favor of men increased upon his life, for he was loved greatly by God.” Luke 2:52 The Passion Translation (TPT)
Jesus’ brothers are mentioned in the Gospels (Matthew 13:55-56 and Mark 6:3) but his sisters aren’t mentioned by name. The book: Jesus’ Family Tree: Seeing God’s Faithfulness in the Genealogy of Christ (Rose Publishing), suggests that there were at least seven children in the family. I researched for some girl’s names and found Yeshua in Context, I picked 2 from that list and decided that Mary’s close relationship with her cousin Elizabeth probably would have led her to choosing to name her first daughter Elizabeth.
A long journey
A devoted search
Following Jesus and learning about His wonderful ways is a lifelong journey.
Studying God’s Word and trying to live it out is a lifelong quest.
Getting to know the Holy Spirit is a devoted search that transforms us from glory to glory for all of our days.